Photo: Thomas Jacobs InstagramBecca Kufrinrevealed she’s strongly leaning toward keeping her wedding tofiancéThomas Jacobsprivate after attending a filmed ceremony for oneBachelorNation couple.TheBachelor Happy Hourwas a guest whenBachelor in ParadisestarsChris RadoneandKrystal Neilsonsaid “I do.” The pair got engaged onBiP’s fifth season, which aired in 2018. Theymarriedin June 2020 andsplitnearly eight months after their big day.“I went to Chris and Krystal’s wedding in the past forParadiseand it was a disaster,” Kufrin, 32, toldEntertainment Tonighton Thursday.John Fleenor/ABCSince then, Kufrin’s been pretty certain she’ll make her upcoming nuptials to Jacobs a private, non-televised affair.“I don’t think we would have it televised,” she said. “I think we would just want to keep it more intimate and personal between us.“Of course, she admitted, “I can never say no because every time I say no, definitely not, something ends up happening, so we’ll see, but I don’t think it’s in the cards for us.“Kufrin also shared that she’s not likely to wed Jacobs on camera after having two televised engagements — toArie Luyendyk Jr.onThe BachelorandGarrett YrigoyenonThe Bachelorette— was “enough.“Becca Kufrin InstagramKufrin also toldETshe and Jacobs have “nothing” set in stone for their upcoming wedding.“We have an outline,” she said. “We just want to have a big party, a celebration, that probably won’t be traditional in any sense.“She explained, “We’re just enjoying this moment, and living in the engagement bliss, and enjoying being able to say fiancé. I’m sure very soon, in probably the next couple months, we’ll start to actually plan and sit down and figure out what it will all look like.“She added, “I’m not a planner. I just hate to plan anything and so I’m like, ‘Thomas, you can take the reins here.'“In May, the reality starannouncedthat she was engaged to Jacobs on Instagram, writing, “In the ultimate plot twist … HE SAID YES!““We’ve been keeping this secret just between us and close family & friends for a while but we’re so excited to shout it from the rooftops!” Kufrin added.Never miss a story — sign up forPEOPLE’s free weekly newsletterto get the biggest news of the week delivered to your inbox every Friday.Kufrin toldEntertainment Tonightthat she expected a mixed reaction from fans after her untraditional engagement.“I’ve been in this world long enough to know that anything you do will have such a mixed reaction. I wasn’t naive to that. I knew what people would probably say, and how they would feel about it, and if they would or wouldn’t do what I did,” she said. “But, at the end of the day, none of that mattered because I did what I felt was best for our relationship.““As long as Thomas isappreciative and supportiveand loved how the proposal happened, that’s all that matters,” she added. “At the end of the day, him and I are so excited for our future and how this started. Our families are so supportive and that’s really all that matters to us.”

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Becca Kufrin and Thomas Jacobs

Becca Kufrinrevealed she’s strongly leaning toward keeping her wedding tofiancéThomas Jacobsprivate after attending a filmed ceremony for oneBachelorNation couple.TheBachelor Happy Hourwas a guest whenBachelor in ParadisestarsChris RadoneandKrystal Neilsonsaid “I do.” The pair got engaged onBiP’s fifth season, which aired in 2018. Theymarriedin June 2020 andsplitnearly eight months after their big day.“I went to Chris and Krystal’s wedding in the past forParadiseand it was a disaster,” Kufrin, 32, toldEntertainment Tonighton Thursday.John Fleenor/ABCSince then, Kufrin’s been pretty certain she’ll make her upcoming nuptials to Jacobs a private, non-televised affair.“I don’t think we would have it televised,” she said. “I think we would just want to keep it more intimate and personal between us.“Of course, she admitted, “I can never say no because every time I say no, definitely not, something ends up happening, so we’ll see, but I don’t think it’s in the cards for us.“Kufrin also shared that she’s not likely to wed Jacobs on camera after having two televised engagements — toArie Luyendyk Jr.onThe BachelorandGarrett YrigoyenonThe Bachelorette— was “enough.“Becca Kufrin InstagramKufrin also toldETshe and Jacobs have “nothing” set in stone for their upcoming wedding.“We have an outline,” she said. “We just want to have a big party, a celebration, that probably won’t be traditional in any sense.“She explained, “We’re just enjoying this moment, and living in the engagement bliss, and enjoying being able to say fiancé. I’m sure very soon, in probably the next couple months, we’ll start to actually plan and sit down and figure out what it will all look like.“She added, “I’m not a planner. I just hate to plan anything and so I’m like, ‘Thomas, you can take the reins here.'“In May, the reality starannouncedthat she was engaged to Jacobs on Instagram, writing, “In the ultimate plot twist … HE SAID YES!““We’ve been keeping this secret just between us and close family & friends for a while but we’re so excited to shout it from the rooftops!” Kufrin added.Never miss a story — sign up forPEOPLE’s free weekly newsletterto get the biggest news of the week delivered to your inbox every Friday.Kufrin toldEntertainment Tonightthat she expected a mixed reaction from fans after her untraditional engagement.“I’ve been in this world long enough to know that anything you do will have such a mixed reaction. I wasn’t naive to that. I knew what people would probably say, and how they would feel about it, and if they would or wouldn’t do what I did,” she said. “But, at the end of the day, none of that mattered because I did what I felt was best for our relationship.““As long as Thomas isappreciative and supportiveand loved how the proposal happened, that’s all that matters,” she added. “At the end of the day, him and I are so excited for our future and how this started. Our families are so supportive and that’s really all that matters to us.”

Becca Kufrinrevealed she’s strongly leaning toward keeping her wedding tofiancéThomas Jacobsprivate after attending a filmed ceremony for oneBachelorNation couple.

TheBachelor Happy Hourwas a guest whenBachelor in ParadisestarsChris RadoneandKrystal Neilsonsaid “I do.” The pair got engaged onBiP’s fifth season, which aired in 2018. Theymarriedin June 2020 andsplitnearly eight months after their big day.

“I went to Chris and Krystal’s wedding in the past forParadiseand it was a disaster,” Kufrin, 32, toldEntertainment Tonighton Thursday.

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BACHELOR IN PARADISE - Kris and Krystal’s Wedding

Since then, Kufrin’s been pretty certain she’ll make her upcoming nuptials to Jacobs a private, non-televised affair.

“I don’t think we would have it televised,” she said. “I think we would just want to keep it more intimate and personal between us.”

Of course, she admitted, “I can never say no because every time I say no, definitely not, something ends up happening, so we’ll see, but I don’t think it’s in the cards for us.”

Kufrin also shared that she’s not likely to wed Jacobs on camera after having two televised engagements — toArie Luyendyk Jr.onThe BachelorandGarrett YrigoyenonThe Bachelorette— was “enough.”

Becca Kufrin Instagram

Becca Kufrin and Thomas Jacobs

Kufrin also toldETshe and Jacobs have “nothing” set in stone for their upcoming wedding.

“We have an outline,” she said. “We just want to have a big party, a celebration, that probably won’t be traditional in any sense.”

She explained, “We’re just enjoying this moment, and living in the engagement bliss, and enjoying being able to say fiancé. I’m sure very soon, in probably the next couple months, we’ll start to actually plan and sit down and figure out what it will all look like.”

She added, “I’m not a planner. I just hate to plan anything and so I’m like, ‘Thomas, you can take the reins here.'”

In May, the reality starannouncedthat she was engaged to Jacobs on Instagram, writing, “In the ultimate plot twist … HE SAID YES!”

“We’ve been keeping this secret just between us and close family & friends for a while but we’re so excited to shout it from the rooftops!” Kufrin added.

Never miss a story — sign up forPEOPLE’s free weekly newsletterto get the biggest news of the week delivered to your inbox every Friday.

Kufrin toldEntertainment Tonightthat she expected a mixed reaction from fans after her untraditional engagement.

“I’ve been in this world long enough to know that anything you do will have such a mixed reaction. I wasn’t naive to that. I knew what people would probably say, and how they would feel about it, and if they would or wouldn’t do what I did,” she said. “But, at the end of the day, none of that mattered because I did what I felt was best for our relationship.”

“As long as Thomas isappreciative and supportiveand loved how the proposal happened, that’s all that matters,” she added. “At the end of the day, him and I are so excited for our future and how this started. Our families are so supportive and that’s really all that matters to us.”

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