01of 30Kim PetrasMatt Winkelmeyer/GettyThe pop star, who underwent gender-confirmation surgery when she was 16,talked toGlamour U.K.about how bullies affected her young years. “Just being transgender and going to school is tough. [I learned] people will not like you or people will like you, that’s just a reality of life,” she said. “You cannot please everybody, and a lot of people bully people because they’re jealous or because they have their own personal issues that they project on you. Sometimes it doesn’t even have to do with you, sometimes people are just bored.“Petras later told PEOPLEthat she relied on music to be a respite during her most troubling times. “[Pop music] means everything to me. When I was a kid, I used to not really have friends in school. I hated going to school — I got bullied pretty bad,” she said. “I used to run home from school and watchGwen Stefanimusic videos, and I felt like I could escape my problems with that.”

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The pop star, who underwent gender-confirmation surgery when she was 16,talked toGlamour U.K.about how bullies affected her young years. “Just being transgender and going to school is tough. [I learned] people will not like you or people will like you, that’s just a reality of life,” she said. “You cannot please everybody, and a lot of people bully people because they’re jealous or because they have their own personal issues that they project on you. Sometimes it doesn’t even have to do with you, sometimes people are just bored.”

Petras later told PEOPLEthat she relied on music to be a respite during her most troubling times. “[Pop music] means everything to me. When I was a kid, I used to not really have friends in school. I hated going to school — I got bullied pretty bad,” she said. “I used to run home from school and watchGwen Stefanimusic videos, and I felt like I could escape my problems with that.”

02of 30Josh GadJesse Grant/GettyDuring his adolescence, theFrozen 2star found a unique way to handle his haters. “I realized early on [that] I was the absolute poster boy for bullying because I struggled with being overweight from a very early age, but I also discovered that comedy was a weapon that I was able to employ,“he said onOff Camera with Sam Jones.“I remember one time a kid calling me fat in front of, like, a group of people. And, instead of giving him the opportunity to sort of, you know, leave, I started recited that monologue fromMy Cousin Vinny, where he walks in the bar and he sees the guy in the arm sling. And I just literally started reciting to the point that the guy’s like, ‘What the f— is happening right now?’ And everybody is laughing at him.“Now a dad of two, Gad is passing on all the lessons he’s learned about what motivated detractors and how they should be dealt with. “There have been instances where I’ve watched my own kid get bullied, and it’s painful, it’s really painful,” he said. “It’s an honest conversation that you have to have, especially if you’re a father or a mother, where you sit down and you let them know that it’s on the other person. Which isn’t just words — it really is the truth. If someone feels the need to come up to you and call you weird, or call you whatever name, it’s because they don’t like themselves.”

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During his adolescence, theFrozen 2star found a unique way to handle his haters. “I realized early on [that] I was the absolute poster boy for bullying because I struggled with being overweight from a very early age, but I also discovered that comedy was a weapon that I was able to employ,“he said onOff Camera with Sam Jones.“I remember one time a kid calling me fat in front of, like, a group of people. And, instead of giving him the opportunity to sort of, you know, leave, I started recited that monologue fromMy Cousin Vinny, where he walks in the bar and he sees the guy in the arm sling. And I just literally started reciting to the point that the guy’s like, ‘What the f— is happening right now?’ And everybody is laughing at him.”

Now a dad of two, Gad is passing on all the lessons he’s learned about what motivated detractors and how they should be dealt with. “There have been instances where I’ve watched my own kid get bullied, and it’s painful, it’s really painful,” he said. “It’s an honest conversation that you have to have, especially if you’re a father or a mother, where you sit down and you let them know that it’s on the other person. Which isn’t just words — it really is the truth. If someone feels the need to come up to you and call you weird, or call you whatever name, it’s because they don’t like themselves.”

03of 30Shawn MendesShawn Mendes.Karwai Tang/WireImageIn a June 2019 Instagram post, the singer opened up about teasing he experienced after posting one of his earlier videos to YouTube. At the time, he was in 9th grade and a group of older bullies at school had gotten word, teasing him about it the next day."[They were] yelling out ‘sing for me Shawn sing for me!’ in a way that made me feel absolutely horrible… made me feel like a joke, like what I was doing was just stupid and wrong,” Mendes recalled.“It’s not a joke to me,” he said. “To make someone feel bad about doing what they love… every single person deserves to do what makes them feel alive.““I’m writing this not only to the 15-year-old kid who’s scared to follow their heart because of what people might say, but also to the 50-year-old who may be doing the exact same thing,” Mendes explained.

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In a June 2019 Instagram post, the singer opened up about teasing he experienced after posting one of his earlier videos to YouTube. At the time, he was in 9th grade and a group of older bullies at school had gotten word, teasing him about it the next day.

“[They were] yelling out ‘sing for me Shawn sing for me!’ in a way that made me feel absolutely horrible… made me feel like a joke, like what I was doing was just stupid and wrong,” Mendes recalled.

“It’s not a joke to me,” he said. “To make someone feel bad about doing what they love… every single person deserves to do what makes them feel alive.”

“I’m writing this not only to the 15-year-old kid who’s scared to follow their heart because of what people might say, but also to the 50-year-old who may be doing the exact same thing,” Mendes explained.

04of 30Niall HoranNiall Horan.Rodin Eckenroth/Getty ImagesHoran didn’t go into detail of his own experiences, but commented on Mendes' June 2019 post alluding to bullying in his past, too.“Couldn’t relate or agree with something more If I tried…“Horan wrote. “We had the last laugh.”

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Horan didn’t go into detail of his own experiences, but commented on Mendes' June 2019 post alluding to bullying in his past, too.

“Couldn’t relate or agree with something more If I tried…“Horan wrote. “We had the last laugh.”

05of 30Priyanka Chopra JonasTodd Williamson/GettyIn aninterview withGlamour, the actress revealed she was bullied in high school — a traumatic experience that prompted her move back to India from the U.S.“There was this girl who was a major bully. I think she didn’t like me because her boyfriend liked me, or some high school dynamic,“Choprashared. “She made my life hell. She used to call me names and would push me against the locker.““Maybe I, being on the platform that I am, can say this louder than the kid who has to get on the subway and go to school: You don’t need to be afraid of who you are,” she said. “I don’t want any kid to feel the way I felt in school. I was afraid of my bully. It made me feel like I’m less — in my skin, in my identity, in my culture.“In May 2019,she opened up againabout her experiences in American high schools, telling theAssociated Press, “I was treated differently because I’m brown. I had, you know, really racist behavior when I was in high school in 10th grade. I was called ‘Brownie,’ ‘Curry,’ [told to] ‘go back on the elephant you came on,’ and that really affected me when I was a kid and affected my self-esteem.”

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Priyanka Chopra Jonas

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In aninterview withGlamour, the actress revealed she was bullied in high school — a traumatic experience that prompted her move back to India from the U.S.

“There was this girl who was a major bully. I think she didn’t like me because her boyfriend liked me, or some high school dynamic,“Choprashared. “She made my life hell. She used to call me names and would push me against the locker.”

“Maybe I, being on the platform that I am, can say this louder than the kid who has to get on the subway and go to school: You don’t need to be afraid of who you are,” she said. “I don’t want any kid to feel the way I felt in school. I was afraid of my bully. It made me feel like I’m less — in my skin, in my identity, in my culture.”

In May 2019,she opened up againabout her experiences in American high schools, telling theAssociated Press, “I was treated differently because I’m brown. I had, you know, really racist behavior when I was in high school in 10th grade. I was called ‘Brownie,’ ‘Curry,’ [told to] ‘go back on the elephant you came on,’ and that really affected me when I was a kid and affected my self-esteem.”

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Gaga told PEOPLEthat her memories of being bullied helped her connect with her insecureA Star Is Borncharacter, Ally.

“What I had to do was go back further into my childhood, into my high school years, when I was bullied and made fun of for having big dreams,” she continued. “That’s where I went.”

07of 30Janel ParrishJon Kopaloff/FilmMagicThePretty Little Liarsalum opened up about her younger years as a student as part of ananti-bullying PSAfor Disney/ABC’s #ChooseKindness campaign with herPerfectionistscostarSasha Pietersefor National Bullying Prevention Month.“I have had experiences being bullied. For me, it was definitely high school. I was not the popular girl at all,” Parrish said in a PEOPLE exclusive video. “Being a very theatrical girl who always wanted to do musical theatre after school instead of hang out with the cool kids and go to the mall. And that made me different so I definitely got made fun of a lot, called names.““Being called names, having people make you feel like you are less than in any way is so demeaning and it just makes you feel so self-conscious all the time,” theTo All The Boys I’ve Loved Beforestar recalled.“But ultimately, end of the day, I think what made me different is what makes me special. I embraced it and I’m really glad that I did,” she said.

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ThePretty Little Liarsalum opened up about her younger years as a student as part of ananti-bullying PSAfor Disney/ABC’s #ChooseKindness campaign with herPerfectionistscostarSasha Pietersefor National Bullying Prevention Month.

“I have had experiences being bullied. For me, it was definitely high school. I was not the popular girl at all,” Parrish said in a PEOPLE exclusive video. “Being a very theatrical girl who always wanted to do musical theatre after school instead of hang out with the cool kids and go to the mall. And that made me different so I definitely got made fun of a lot, called names.”

“Being called names, having people make you feel like you are less than in any way is so demeaning and it just makes you feel so self-conscious all the time,” theTo All The Boys I’ve Loved Beforestar recalled.

“But ultimately, end of the day, I think what made me different is what makes me special. I embraced it and I’m really glad that I did,” she said.

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The young star pointed out that bullying can have dire consequences. “There are kids out there killing themselves just because of y’all hating and trolling and doing just crazy stuff. I mean, it’s stupid,” he said. “Is it fun? No. It hurts people. People kill themselves, and you’re the one who’s making them do it. Fix your heart, though. For real.”

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Her response was sparked when someone commented on a fan account’s split photo ofHadidand close friendKendall Jenner, accusing them of getting plastic surgery and writing, “money can get you a new face but not a nicer personality which these two girls need.”

“I wish you would know either of our personalities. And not only that, I wish you would only grasp a heart of your own,” she wrote. “Blessings to you sweetheart. Jealousy is a cry for help that I wish I could help you with.”

Hadid still posts things that matter to her, but has decided to keep some things more private. “I learned that protecting myself and my heart is more important to me right now.”

11of 30Emily BluntJamie McCarthy/GettyBlunt discovered early onhow to work around her childhood stutter, which still flares up from time to time. “It runs in my family,” theA Quiet Placeactressexplained. “I had an uncle, cousin, grandfather who stuttered. It’s nothing to do with anxiety.“While she’s learned to manage it,she admitted to PEOPLEthat the hardest part was “having it at 12, 13 — you’re like, come on, man. And so I used to do a lot of funny voices and funny accents, because I could speak more fluently if I didn’t sound like me.“Eager to use her platform to inspire others who speak with a stutter, Blunt now works with theAmerican Institute of Stuttering, which she says “is amazing. They offer people a real community.”

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Emily Blunt

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Blunt discovered early onhow to work around her childhood stutter, which still flares up from time to time. “It runs in my family,” theA Quiet Placeactressexplained. “I had an uncle, cousin, grandfather who stuttered. It’s nothing to do with anxiety.”

While she’s learned to manage it,she admitted to PEOPLEthat the hardest part was “having it at 12, 13 — you’re like, come on, man. And so I used to do a lot of funny voices and funny accents, because I could speak more fluently if I didn’t sound like me.”

Eager to use her platform to inspire others who speak with a stutter, Blunt now works with theAmerican Institute of Stuttering, which she says “is amazing. They offer people a real community.”

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Gainesmay be the picture of a confident wife, mom, business owner and television star now, but theFixer Upperfavorite used to see herself in a very different light. In aninterview withDarlingmagazine, the designer revealed that her insecurities stemmed from experiences she had in school.

“If you haven’t heard my story,my mom is full Korean and my dad is Caucasian,” she said. “Kids in kindergarten would make fun of me for being Asian and when you’re that age you don’t know really how to process that; the way you take that is, ‘Who I am isn’t good enough.’ "

Her discomfort reached its peak, though, after moving to a town in Texas and joining a new, much larger, school. “In the lunchroom everyone was a blur and I was thinking, ‘How do people do this? How do you find that one person to sit with?’ " she said. “So I literally walked in the lunchroom and walked out and went into the bathroom. My fear and my insecurities just took over and I felt like I’d way rather sit in the stall than get rejected.”

13of 30Madison BeerC Flanigan/GettyBeer, a singer who made a name for herself with her YouTube videos, said that she experiences cyberbullying on a daily basis. “I wake up and have been told to kill myself like 30 times already; it’s crazy!” shetold Elvis Duran on the Z100 Morning Show. “It’s definitely what comes with it, and a lot of people say, ‘Yeah, but this is what you signed up for.’ " Beer, however, disagrees with that assessment: “I think that’s such a shame to say. It shouldn’t come along with me making music and following my dreams. It’s upsetting those two go hand-in-hand now because of social media.”

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Beer, a singer who made a name for herself with her YouTube videos, said that she experiences cyberbullying on a daily basis. “I wake up and have been told to kill myself like 30 times already; it’s crazy!” shetold Elvis Duran on the Z100 Morning Show. “It’s definitely what comes with it, and a lot of people say, ‘Yeah, but this is what you signed up for.’ " Beer, however, disagrees with that assessment: “I think that’s such a shame to say. It shouldn’t come along with me making music and following my dreams. It’s upsetting those two go hand-in-hand now because of social media.”

14of 30Tom HollandMatt Winkelmeyer/WireImageBefore landing his buzzed-about role as the crime-fighting webslinger inSpider-Man: Homecoming, Holland faced his fair share of adversaries. “I had my rough patches,“Holland told PEOPLE.Despite now being a Hollywood A-lister, as a talented young dancer (he played the title role in a London run ofBilly Elliot the Musicalat age 12),Hollandfielded harassment from peers throughout his younger years. “There was times when I was bullied about dancing and stuff,” he said. “But you couldn’t hit me hard enough to stop me from doing it.”

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Before landing his buzzed-about role as the crime-fighting webslinger inSpider-Man: Homecoming, Holland faced his fair share of adversaries. “I had my rough patches,“Holland told PEOPLE.

Despite now being a Hollywood A-lister, as a talented young dancer (he played the title role in a London run ofBilly Elliot the Musicalat age 12),Hollandfielded harassment from peers throughout his younger years. “There was times when I was bullied about dancing and stuff,” he said. “But you couldn’t hit me hard enough to stop me from doing it.”

15of 30Padma LakshmiElder Ordonez/INSTARimages.comGrowing up and having to go back and forth between India and New York, theTop Chefhostfound it difficult to fit in. “I can even remember their names — when I was in seventh grade it was Sylvia, when I was in eighth grade it was Patty,” she recalled of girls who bullied her. “One time somebody crushed an egg on my head and punched [me] in the face — it was horrible. I used to be called giraffe and it just makes you feel so, so alone and so scared.”

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Padma Lakshmi

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Growing up and having to go back and forth between India and New York, theTop Chefhostfound it difficult to fit in. “I can even remember their names — when I was in seventh grade it was Sylvia, when I was in eighth grade it was Patty,” she recalled of girls who bullied her. “One time somebody crushed an egg on my head and punched [me] in the face — it was horrible. I used to be called giraffe and it just makes you feel so, so alone and so scared.”

16of 30Maddie BaillioJason LaVeris/FilmMagicThe Texas native, who played the iconic Tracy Turnblad inNBC’sHairspray Live!,opened up about being bullied as a child. “When I was younger, I was bullied a lot and I let that stop me from doing the things that I wanted to do. And Tracy, she never lets anything stop her and she’s bullied constantly,” Bailliotold PEOPLE. “Because she doesn’t let anything stop her, she gets the guy and she gets to be on the show and she takes the world!”

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Maddie Baillio

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The Texas native, who played the iconic Tracy Turnblad inNBC’sHairspray Live!,opened up about being bullied as a child. “When I was younger, I was bullied a lot and I let that stop me from doing the things that I wanted to do. And Tracy, she never lets anything stop her and she’s bullied constantly,” Bailliotold PEOPLE. “Because she doesn’t let anything stop her, she gets the guy and she gets to be on the show and she takes the world!”

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19of 30Kylie JennerKylie Jenner.Axelle/Bauer-Griffin/FilmMagicLife in the KarJenner world isn’t as picture-perfect as it seems, according to the family’s youngest star.Jennertook to Snapchat to reveal that she has been bullied since she was 9. “I think that I’ve done a really great job at handling all of this. But there’s bullies everywhere,” she said, before ending on a positive note. “This isn’t a pity party though … This is so that others with bullies out there know that you’re not alone.”

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Life in the KarJenner world isn’t as picture-perfect as it seems, according to the family’s youngest star.Jennertook to Snapchat to reveal that she has been bullied since she was 9. “I think that I’ve done a really great job at handling all of this. But there’s bullies everywhere,” she said, before ending on a positive note. “This isn’t a pity party though … This is so that others with bullies out there know that you’re not alone.”

20of 30Rumer WillisNoel Vasquez/GettyBullies do not always take the form of a classmate or insecure friend — in the case ofWillis, her tormenters were tabloids, who would compare her to her “masculine father"Bruce Willisand cruelly scrutinize her face and body, causing her to consider plastic surgery as a young teen. “I thought … ‘If I change my face or get really skinny, that will be it. That will be the answer.’ And it’s not,” Willis said, wiping away tears, on an April 2015 episode ofDancing with the Stars.

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Rumer Willis

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Bullies do not always take the form of a classmate or insecure friend — in the case ofWillis, her tormenters were tabloids, who would compare her to her “masculine father"Bruce Willisand cruelly scrutinize her face and body, causing her to consider plastic surgery as a young teen. “I thought … ‘If I change my face or get really skinny, that will be it. That will be the answer.’ And it’s not,” Willis said, wiping away tears, on an April 2015 episode ofDancing with the Stars.

21of 30Mae WhitmanJim Spellman/WireImageHigh school was “terrible” for the actress, whose filmThe DUFFaimed to give a voice to teens struggling with body image issues. “I was bullied all through school. It was awful. I was a tomboy and nerdy,“she told PEOPLE. Though she grew up in the spotlight (she filmed her first movie at age 6) and is finding even more fame these days, Whitman admits Hollywood isn’t always welcoming to her, either. “There’s labeling and typecasting,” she added. “I get, ‘Oh, you’re not ugly enough or not fat enough.’ But I’m like, ‘Who is?'”

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Mae Whitman

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High school was “terrible” for the actress, whose filmThe DUFFaimed to give a voice to teens struggling with body image issues. “I was bullied all through school. It was awful. I was a tomboy and nerdy,“she told PEOPLE. Though she grew up in the spotlight (she filmed her first movie at age 6) and is finding even more fame these days, Whitman admits Hollywood isn’t always welcoming to her, either. “There’s labeling and typecasting,” she added. “I get, ‘Oh, you’re not ugly enough or not fat enough.’ But I’m like, ‘Who is?'”

22of 30Jillian HarrisAstrid Stawiarz/GettyThe beautiful formerBachelorettehad her pick of adoring men on the hit show, but she says bullying when she was younger and being called “hot dog nose” caused her to alter her physical appearance. “Yes this happened, and yes I got a nose job because of it,” she admitted in a now-deleted blog post onher website. “Some people are mean. I’ve found the best way to cope with this is to just feel sorry for them.” She added that it’s better to “choose the route of empathy instead of anger.”

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Jillian Harris

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The beautiful formerBachelorettehad her pick of adoring men on the hit show, but she says bullying when she was younger and being called “hot dog nose” caused her to alter her physical appearance. “Yes this happened, and yes I got a nose job because of it,” she admitted in a now-deleted blog post onher website. “Some people are mean. I’ve found the best way to cope with this is to just feel sorry for them.” She added that it’s better to “choose the route of empathy instead of anger.”

23of 30Jessica ChastainFameFlynetShe’s one of our favorite red carpet beauties, but theOscar winnersays she wasn’t always the center attention for the right reasons. “I was told every day at school that I was ugly,” sherevealed toGlamour. “And that no one wanted to be my friend. The most cruel things. If I can do anything to help young girls and to be a cheerleader for people who sometimes have low self-esteem, I want to do that.”

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She’s one of our favorite red carpet beauties, but theOscar winnersays she wasn’t always the center attention for the right reasons. “I was told every day at school that I was ugly,” sherevealed toGlamour. “And that no one wanted to be my friend. The most cruel things. If I can do anything to help young girls and to be a cheerleader for people who sometimes have low self-esteem, I want to do that.”

24of 30Henry CavillLucas Jackson/LandovSure he played Superman, with flawless abs and a chiseled jaw, but theMan of Steelstarhad a different nickname growing up: “I was Fat Cavill,” hetoldDetails. “I bawled on the phone to my mom four times a day.” On the bright side, the childhood trauma helped him understand his role – and land the part. “My version of Superman is essentially of a guy who has spent his whole life alone.”

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Sure he played Superman, with flawless abs and a chiseled jaw, but theMan of Steelstarhad a different nickname growing up: “I was Fat Cavill,” hetoldDetails. “I bawled on the phone to my mom four times a day.” On the bright side, the childhood trauma helped him understand his role – and land the part. “My version of Superman is essentially of a guy who has spent his whole life alone.”

25of 30Krysten RitterDavid Livingston/GettyHer unique looks were an asset when she became a model, but until then, they just drew unwanted attention. “The kids at school would totally pick on me,“Ritter toldOcean Drivemagazine. “You have to rise above it,“the actress, who starred inDon’t Trust the B—- in Apartment 23and appeared inBreaking Bad, explained. “Burn bright.”

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Her unique looks were an asset when she became a model, but until then, they just drew unwanted attention. “The kids at school would totally pick on me,“Ritter toldOcean Drivemagazine. “You have to rise above it,“the actress, who starred inDon’t Trust the B—- in Apartment 23and appeared inBreaking Bad, explained. “Burn bright.”

26of 30Jessica AlbaJeff Kravitz/FilmMagicWhile thestarlists “fearlessness and confidence” as two of her traits nowadays, that wasn’t always the case. “I was bullied so badly my dad used to have to walk me into school so I didn’t get attacked,” she told theDaily Mail. “I’d eat my lunch in the nurse’s office so I didn’t have to sit with the other girls. Apart from my being mixed race, my parents didn’t have money so I never had the cute clothes or the cool backpack.”

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Jessica Alba

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While thestarlists “fearlessness and confidence” as two of her traits nowadays, that wasn’t always the case. “I was bullied so badly my dad used to have to walk me into school so I didn’t get attacked,” she told theDaily Mail. “I’d eat my lunch in the nurse’s office so I didn’t have to sit with the other girls. Apart from my being mixed race, my parents didn’t have money so I never had the cute clothes or the cool backpack.”

27of 30Michelle TrachtenbergAri Perilstein/GettyThe actress, who played a pot-stirring prep-school bad girl onGossip Girl,drew inspirationfor the role from the bullying she endured during her real-life high school years. “This one girl threw me down a flight of stairs, fractured my ribs, punched and fractured my nose,” she toldComplexmagazine.

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The actress, who played a pot-stirring prep-school bad girl onGossip Girl,drew inspirationfor the role from the bullying she endured during her real-life high school years. “This one girl threw me down a flight of stairs, fractured my ribs, punched and fractured my nose,” she toldComplexmagazine.

28of 30Eva MendesJames Devaney/WireImageDistance and time have given the bombshell actress perspective on what motivated the girls who made her life difficult in her tween years: “I was a gawky, skinny girl with big teeth and that made me an easy target,“MendestoldThe Daily Mail.“I had two bullies and they tortured me all through junior high school. At the time I couldn’t understand why they kept taunting me. Only later could I see that I was showing them my fear and that’s what they were pouncing on.”

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Distance and time have given the bombshell actress perspective on what motivated the girls who made her life difficult in her tween years: “I was a gawky, skinny girl with big teeth and that made me an easy target,“MendestoldThe Daily Mail.“I had two bullies and they tortured me all through junior high school. At the time I couldn’t understand why they kept taunting me. Only later could I see that I was showing them my fear and that’s what they were pouncing on.”

29of 30Demi LovatoAndrew H. Walker/GettyLovato’s own experience with being bullied prompted her to begin a crusade against the painful phenomenon. “People would write ‘hate petitions’ [about me] and send them around to be signed. They’d have CD-bashing parties of my demos,” she told PEOPLE. “They’d come to my house, stand across the street and yell things. It was a very emotional time for me, and all I wanted to do was get away.” Since then she’s worked withPACER’s Teens Against Bullyingorganization, appeared in ananti-bullying videoand became an ambassador for Secret’s “Mean Stinks” campaign.

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Lovato’s own experience with being bullied prompted her to begin a crusade against the painful phenomenon. “People would write ‘hate petitions’ [about me] and send them around to be signed. They’d have CD-bashing parties of my demos,” she told PEOPLE. “They’d come to my house, stand across the street and yell things. It was a very emotional time for me, and all I wanted to do was get away.” Since then she’s worked withPACER’s Teens Against Bullyingorganization, appeared in ananti-bullying videoand became an ambassador for Secret’s “Mean Stinks” campaign.

30of 30Brittany SnowGettyWhat inspired thePitch Perfectfranchise star to start an organization calledLove is Louderto help kids through bullying and depression? Being a victim herself. “When I was younger, I was bullied daily,“she told PEOPLE. “I know what it’s like to feel alone and outcast.”

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What inspired thePitch Perfectfranchise star to start an organization calledLove is Louderto help kids through bullying and depression? Being a victim herself. “When I was younger, I was bullied daily,“she told PEOPLE. “I know what it’s like to feel alone and outcast.”

source: people.com